
In Proverbs 11:12, Solomon says, He who despises his neighbor lacks sense, but a man of understanding keeps silent (v. 12). To despise one’s neighbor is to treat another person with contempt, as though their worth were small. Solomon says this is not sophistication, but lack of sense.
A man of understanding keeps silent because wisdom does not need to display superiority. Understanding has enough stability to avoid contemptuous speech. Silence here is not cowardice; it is restraint governed by humility and perspective.
This verse reminds us that wisdom honors the image of God in others. Even when correction is needed, contempt is not wisdom’s tone. Jesus teaches the same heart posture in the Gospel of Matthew, calling His followers to treat others as they themselves would wish to be treated (to learn more about how Christ calls His disciples to treat others with the same care they desire, reflecting the heart of both His teaching and the law, please read our commentary on Matthew 7:12).
Used with permission from TheBibleSays.com.
You can access the original article here:Proverbs 11:12 Meaning
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